I've moved to my brand new online home
I can't wait to see you again
the welcome mat is out
I saved a seat just for you
Linda
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11.2.2023
I've moved to my brand new online home
I can't wait to see you again
the welcome mat is out
I saved a seat just for you
Linda
💙
11.2.2023
PORCH
A CHRIST-CENTERED
WEEKEND NEWSLETTER
gentle conversation
calming snapshots
uplifting linkage
occasional surprises
The last golden days of October have arrived. Meanwhile, we're living with the awful surreal reality of the mass shooting in next-door Maine. The whole world has gone mad with torment and grief, our politics are completely off-the-rails, and holiday excesses are just around the corner.
Lament matters.
I don't know about you, but I need to acknowledge these stark realities even as I purposefully refocus and recalibrate, reflecting on things that are good and lovely, excellent and praiseworthy (Philippians 4:8). I know no other way to continue forward.
The soothing art of dabbling with watercolors. Choosing to purposefully quiet our ragged souls. Falling in love with the Scriptures yet again. And my take on blogging as 2023 edges toward a close.
Here we go.
SOMETHING LOVED
PORCH
A CHRIST-CENTERED
WEEKEND NEWSLETTER
gentle conversation & calming snapshots
uplifting linkage & occasional surprises
for those who delight in doing life
in the company of kindred spirits
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College orientation. Can you even ...?
I like how you framed the summer 'blogging load.' It's a loaded phrase, no pun intended. It's interesting to see the wide variety of responses ... drop out, pare down, forge ahead as usual. Or maybe do something completely different in these online spaces we call home.
It'd be refreshing NOT to do business as usual, wouldn't it ...
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Are you craving a break from your posting schedule but fear losing your readers and that hard-won momentum in building community?
Feeling a bit crispy around the edges, at a loss when it comes to producing something fresh or innovative?
Are you bored with blogging? Or do you feel God stretching and growing you because of your time online?
And if you're not a blogger but you love FB or Insta or any kind of online social, are you considering any summertime choices, changes, or challenges?
Let's talk. Because there's no one size that fits all. Yet it's always good for us to know what we value and how we want to invest our sometimes limited time and energy, especially as we're barreling into a brand new season. I can't wait to hear what you're considering.
Linda
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Did you catch this week's hefty 3 Historical Novels + A Whole Lot More?
Thanks to Paula & Jeanne & Donna & Richella & Lisa & Dee & Joanne
PORCH
a soft place to land
a calm weekend haven
a gentle pause from life's busyness
so we may experience
the tender lovingkindness of Jesus
as we do life together
in community
1. candle
Most mornings, I light a candle after coming downstairs. The warm scent of Woodwick Vanilla Bean smells luscious but not overpowering as it crackles away. And in this peaceful morning ritual, I often quietly sing the chorus of this song.
SHOP HERE
2. calendar
I didn't set up my wall calendar 'til last week. Bad idea. Every time I wanted to know what was going on I had to sift through a whole bunch of bits and pieces of scrap paper looking for what I should have already known. My favorite calendar saved the day when she finally arrived. If you look at your calendar 10x a day like I do, Lang's gorgeous works of art are worth every cent.
SHOP HERE
3. white board
If it wasn't bad enough that I had no calendar, my white board bit the dust last month as well. Ours holds a place of honor on the fridge and it's always been a steady lifeline, simply because if something's not written down, I'll forget it. Daily to-dos, our weekly schedule, things I don't want to nag about that need attention. Few things are more satisfying than swiping away a task after finishing it off. I was so relieved when my new one arrived. Life could return to normal again.
SHOP HERE
4. ministry
I've found my sweet spot as a co-leader of a Stephen Ministry at church. The team of care givers that God continues to pull together is awesome. If your church is looking for a more organized, effective way to reach out to people who need care, this just might fit the bill. The training is awesome, the hearts of people who both give and receive care are beautiful. I can't say enough.
LEARN MORE
5. movies
One of the many things we missed during covid was the simple joy of going to the movies. It looks like we're finally back in business again ... and one of the local theaters is only $6.50 on Tuesdays.
6. wreaths
I recently scooped up two faux forsythia wreaths at T.J. Maxx, one for each door. I was more than glad to take down the dried up pine wreaths and put these beauties up yesterday. Springtime wreaths in January? I couldn't imagine waiting another day. These make me smile.
SHOP SIMILAR
7. seasoning
I'm a huge fan of Everything Bagel seasoning. I sprinkle it generously on all kinds of food - hard boiled eggs, sweet potatoes, tuna salad, avocados, mashed potatoes, tossed salad, whatever. You, too?
SHOP HERE
8. starfish
No, I'm not talking about the spiny ocean dweller. Lands' End Starfish pants/leggings/jeans/shorts are my wardrobe staples. Think comfy, stretchy, excellent quality ... and there's always a sale going on. I'm the biggest fan ever as my body continues to change. (Emily Freeman's gracious game-changing Wear Better Pants podcast episode comes to mind.)
SHOP HERE
9. freezer
There might only be two of us these days, but you'll still find me whipping up big batches of spaghetti sauce, chicken soup, chili, pot roast, sausage tortellini soup, biscuits, shortbread. It's a good nudge to invite a few people over for a meal ... or to keep the freezer stocked for (most) days when I don't feel like cooking. The secret is to freeze your culinary goodies flat in bags, not use bulky containers that take over limited freezer space.
SHOP HERE
10. devotions
This year I'm using a Bible reading plan. It's designed to take the reader through the Old Testament and the New Testament in two years, and the Psalms and Proverbs four times. I'm staying focused but when I miss a day, no worries. God is not a harsh taskmaster, but a loving Father full of grace, gently inviting us into a deeper, more vibrant relationship.
THE PLAN
11. organizing
It's like winter was made for sorting and re-organizing our stuff. I feel free-er and lighter when I know what I actually have and decide on the perfect place for it to be stored. And there's something satisfying in shedding excess stuff that we simply don't use or care about anymore.
BAG A DAY
12. caring bridge
Two dear longtime friends are each walking through cancer's dark valley. My heart breaks for their pain and their families' grief. But I'm grateful for the loving online communities that let them know they're not alone. Please pray for Heather and for Brent.
THE WEBSITE
13. books
I'm moving slowly through my TBR list. I did a detour to dive into Prince Harry's memoir. And Bonnie Gray's Finding Spiritual Whitespace: Awakening Your Soul to Rest is waiting patiently in the wings (thank you, Carole).
MY TBR LIST
14. the blues scrapbook
I pulled together these mid-winter snapshots a year ago. Best therapy ever.
ENJOY SCRAPBOOK
What's saving your life this winter?
Linda
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Hey my friends! Welcome back.
Today we're going to look at questions you've sent my way in recent days. Hopefully this will be helpful, maybe even interesting whether you're new to blog reading ... or you're a writer who's been blogging since way back in the day.
I've been writing online since 2008. And more than ever I love it. I do get a little weary of hearing creative types brush it off as 'old school.' The nay-sayers don't know what they're missing. Fresh topics and energizing dialogue that enlarge our borders and push us out of our well-worn comfort zones. Open doors and invitations to be heard and known. Building relationships and growing faith in ways that sometimes catch us surprisingly off guard.
There's absolutely nothing flashy, trendy, or eye-catching about my online home's design. No bells and whistles, no widgets and gizmos. I've kept things pretty bare bones with lots of quiet white space. When all is said and done, it's probably been a good thing.
Looking back, simple has served me pretty well. I've learned the hard way that too much tinkering with the innards quickly robs me of any creativity I may have.
My desire is to offer you a warm and welcoming Christ-centered space. A gentle pause in the busyness of your online travels. A calm haven to catch your breath and be re-filled. An opportunity for you to join in community with other like-minded souls to savor whatever is on the table at the moment.
And an ongoing invitation to safely join in on the conversation at hand. Or silently soak it all in on the sidelines.
Anyway, let's go ...
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visiting
Jeanne/Lisa J & Paula
Richella & Lisa
Hey There ~
For awhile, I've been wanting to chat with other bloggers about how they live out their blogging lives. I've never seen a discussion devoted to personal behind the scenes values and logistics. I find myself curious, fascinated really, to get a peek at what works for you ... and what doesn't.
For sure, there's no one right way to do the blogging life and chances are how you're living it out now has evolved from when you first started ... as well as being quite different from your neighbor's philosophy and practice.
I've thrown a whole lot of questions on the table to get the conversation going, but I really want to hear what's on your heart, the good, the bad, the divine, the not-so-pretty.
As ever, we are all students, listening well to each other's vulnerable stories, respecting our differences, and gleaning from hard won know-how, mistakes and victories.
Iron sharpens iron {Proverbs 27:17}.
Are you an old-timer or a fresh face?
Keep a posting schedule or go with the creative flow?
How many hours a week?
Developed a unique niche?
How do you dream up topics?
Do you participate in weekly link-ups?
Take time off?
Run out of steam?
How do your nurture your community?
And manage the tech stuff?
Do unpleasant emotions make an appearance?
Is this a money maker?
Have interactions been hurtful or harmful?
Embraced a theme, mantra, or mission statement?
How many bloggers do you follow?
Do you schedule time for commenting on other blogs?
What hasn't worked for you?
Impact of other social media?
Spending less morning quiet time with God?
Your biggest disappointment?
Your greatest joy?
What might God want to do with your passion to write, create, nurture, teach, mentor, lead?
Can't wait to hear how you do the ins and outs, the ups and downs of a fulfilling, Christ-honoring blog life ~
Linda
From my heart to yours ~
Linda 💙
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More Life.
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Happy end of 2021, dear friends!
As the year winds down, we're celebrating connection and community and all the splendid gifts that come with purposeful, kind-hearted relationships, whether online or in person. Grab your party hat and the confetti ... because you had a big hand in making this happen!
And then put your feet up and get cozy 'cause we've got a whole lot to explore, bookmark, and take note of.
A blog-ish drum roll please.
All praise to Him.
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Hey, dear friends!
Sometimes you just KNOW when it's time to pretty much unplug from online's incessant pull. And for me that's right about now!
October has found this single-tasker fairly focused on pawing through and re-organizing bins and drawers, file cabinets and closets, trunks and shelves. Furniture has been moved or put out on the end of the driveway with a FREE sign on it. The garbage cans overflow, goodies are passed to other family members, the shredder works overtime ... and the thrift shop will be happy when we drop by again tomorrow.
The coming weeks are filling fast with a bunch of online classes, long-anticipated {courtesy of covid} days with family and friends, random appointments ... and hopefully an adventure or two. And so I'm stepping back from blogging for a bit so I can be fully present for whatever God has in store.
And while I'll miss connecting with you in this space, I've never regretted taking time away from screens and blogging. Nothing revitalizes me more than living life away from the laptop. It's good for body, brain, and soul.
Meanwhile, I'm happy to leave you with a bouquet of recent finds that have touched me deeply. Check out the morning meditation app, a couple of truly outstanding podcast episodes and a few penned gems that are soothing, creative, rejuvenating, calming.
The musical benediction is the icing on the cake.
Miss you already ~
Linda
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Thanks to my dear friend, Nancy, for sharing that dreamy picture up top.
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Good morning, Linda! This past weekend I took Molly to summer college orientation and visited a dear friend where we used to live in Arkansas. Still processing all the thoughts and feels from all of that! I love your photos ... for me, right now, they feel like a quiet invitation to find ways to lighten my own blogging load this summer. I hope you have a wonderful week, friend.