i'm so happy you're here
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Linda
Hey gang, it's Advent.
Tucked right between the lavishness of the Thanksgiving feast and the sheer madness of Cyber Monday, she has gently eased her sacred way on in, longing to claim her rightful place. A place of stillness, of waiting, of reflection, of hope. She doesn't jump up and down yelling 'pick me pick me' but she knows that her time to shine is now. She wants to point us to Jesus.
It's all about Jesus.
Not the stress inducing shopping insanity, over-the-top decorating, cookie baking marathons, the endless hours spent writing cards and wrapping presents, the jam-packed calendar, incessant jingle bells, or Santa and his mythical elves and flying reindeer.
Jesus.
Three years ago, a new friend invited me to get together each week of Advent. And so we began, using Sarah Young's Jesus Calling for Christmas. The reflective devotional readings, favorite Scripture, and the most exquisite winter photography have guided us into a much-needed gentle, quiet rhythm each year since.
Through family disasters, illness, covid. The disappointments, the sorrows. The hard and the crazy, as well as the joyful stuff.
We curled up with our mulled cider yesterday, caught up on all the family doings, and then settled in. We talked of what it looks like to live abundant, Christ-centered lives while we're in waiting mode. Of how God has prepared this season of the year, and our lives, with 'the most tender concern and attention to detail.' Of our need to pay attention with gratitude to what He's doing instead of continuing to revert to our old default modes.
Being thankful. Even and especially while we wait.
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Advent is not a solitary observance. We were never created to do life alone. We were born for relationship, for community. Is there a friend you'd like to make space for in this sacred season? To share Scripture and thoughts and prayer? It can't hurt to ask. And no, it's not too late.
This is the kind of presence we're all longing for. Often we just don't know it. Or are scared to ask for it because we've been hurt by being vulnerable in the past and who wants to chance that again?
This is a hard time of year to live a solitary life. I'm guessing that God might be putting someone on your heart who needs a soft place to land, a hot cup of tea, and this kind of spiritual companionship. And you know you need to cultivate this for yourself, too. Maybe it's time to re-connect with someone you've been missing. Go for it. He is with you as you reach out. I promise.
A bit of a benediction for all of us thirsty souls:
May God bless us as we continue our faith walk, becoming more and more like His dear son. May we not be afraid of the presence of another soul, of quiet conversation, or the depth of the vast spiritual treasures He has for us. May the Spirit guide us into refreshing new rhythms and deeper grace as He continues to whisper, 'this is the way, walk ye in it' {Isaiah 30:21}.
Linda
👉 The Listening Life: Embracing Attentiveness in a World of Distraction by Adam McHugh is, hands down, one of my all time favorite books. It was our second Book Club read back in 2018. In fact, if I could only recommend one book to you for this whole year it would be this powerful, yet easy to read gem.
👉 If your church is looking for a lay ministry to come alongside the hurting, check out Stephen Ministries. A huge component is learning to be faithfully present for someone, listening well, asking wise questions, and gently pointing the care receiver to Christ. No pat answers, no fixing, no preaching. I'm a huge fan.
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dear Lord
help us to listen well
like Jesus did when He
stopped what He was doing
& turned His focus to
the heavyhearted who
yearned for His loving care
He showed us how to meet
people right where they were
fully attuned to their neediness
no matter how many demands
clamored for His attention
teach us to discern
Your still small voice so we may
receive compassionate grace
to be wounded healers
for those You send our way
for Your sake
& the redemption of the
bruised & broken
amen
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👉 During this weekend, let's look for an opportunity to fully focus on someone else, with lovingkindness being the only agenda ~
Linda
If you're going through a season of grief or loss, please don't assume that people will know what you need. Most of us don't have a crystal ball and we err on the side of doing nothing because we're not sure what to say ... or assume that you probably need space.
Be clear as to what will work for you. And you'll find that most people will be eager to come alongside and help you carry your load.
We were created to do life in the company of others. Even if we have nothing to offer in return except a tearful 'thanks.'
A few days ago, I sent the note below to several ministry groups I'm a part of. The variety of warm and lovely responses I've received have re-filled my rapidly emptying cup and reminded me again of Christ's steady, strengthening presence in the midst of weakness and sorrow. To say I'm grateful would be a huge understatement.
God speaks through the lovingkindness of His people. And we all get blessed in the process.
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During our recent conversations on cultivating a gentle and lowly spirit and the books that have been my companions on that journey, a number of you began to share that you've read Ortlund's book, wanted to read it, or already had it stashed somewhere in your TBR pile.
Your words have led us to this title. Thank you for taking us there.
My faith has been strengthened, my soul calmed and quieted as I've sat quietly with each chapter. It'd be safe to say that God has used the author's prayerful words to continue the soul restoration He's been doing after a season that almost did me in.
'Whom do you perceive him to be, in your sin and your suffering? Who do you think God is - not just on paper but in the kind of person you believe is hearing you when you pray? How does he feel about you? His saving of us is not cool and calculating. It is a matter of yearning - not the yearning for the Facebook you, the you that you project to everyone around you. Not the you that you wish you were. Yearning for the real you. The you underneath everything you present to others' {page 166}.
There are some days when it's just too hard to pray.
You've run out of words.
Or hope.
Or you yearn for kindred spirits to lift you up to the Father.
How can we pray for you today?
Place your request in the comment section.
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Prayer changes things ~
Linda
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Please pray for our 17 year old granddaughter, Lydia, as she heads to Tyre, Lebanon on a church missions trip this Thursday for 11 days. She is one of 10 adults and students who will be serving families in Syrian refugee camps by sharing meals, engaging with women and children, and encouraging local believers.
Long time readers will remember when she had successful surgery to remove a benign brain tumor 10 years ago. The Lord was certainly present and powerful then and we believe that He is the same today.
Lydia is sheer delight, filled with joy, an athlete, an artist, a leader with a passionate heart for missions. This will be her 5th trip overseas.
Please pray for the group's health, safety, and witness for Jesus Christ in the midst of difficult circumstances. As you might guess, as her 'Ma,' I am concerned, even as I'm so grateful for her strong commitment to Christ. When I asked her if I could ask you all to pray, she said, 'Absolutely! Thank you!!'