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'To listen like Jesus, we need a holy curiosity ... We engage our entire bodies in the act of listening: our eyes are fixed on our friend; we nod our head; we lean forward to show interest; we make appropriate facial expressions in response to what is said.
We ask questions for clarification because we want to learn more about what our friend is thinking or feeling. We don't interrupt or construct our response while our friend talks ...'
- Christina Fox @ Tabletalk
That whole idea of a 'holy curiosity' fascinates me. Curiosity has gotten a bad rap along the way. Think of a nosy neighbor or a busybody intent on minding everyone else's business.
But when we approach listening God's way, our interest in another soul turns into a holy posture. We aren't curious for curiosity's sake or to savor someone else's true confessions. We're focused on another's story with the mind of Christ. With His compassion and concern. Without our usual agenda of making ourselves and our endless, tiresome opinions known.
It becomes all about being the hands and feet and ears of Jesus.
This is a rare gift, a fine art, a sacred calling. In this generation of omni-present social media, it's become far too easy to make everything about us. But as believers in Christ, it's all about Him. And being available for the ones He brings on to our paths.
Being present. In Jesus' name. For His sake. And the emotional healing and spiritual growth of others.
👉 The Listening Life: Embracing Attentiveness in a World of Distraction by Adam McHugh is, hands down, one of my all time favorite books. It was our second Book Club read back in 2018. In fact, if I could only recommend one book to you for this whole year it would be this powerful, yet easy to read gem.
👉 If your church is looking for a lay ministry to come alongside the hurting, check out Stephen Ministries. A huge component is learning to be faithfully present for someone, listening well, asking wise questions, and gently pointing the care receiver to Christ. No pat answers, no fixing, no preaching. I'm a huge fan.
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dear Lord
help us to listen well
like Jesus did when He
stopped what He was doing
& turned His focus to
the heavyhearted who
yearned for His loving care
He showed us how to meet
people right where they were
fully attuned to their neediness
no matter how many demands
clamored for His attention
teach us to discern
Your still small voice so we may
receive compassionate grace
to be wounded healers
for those You send our way
for Your sake
& the redemption of the
bruised & broken
amen
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👉 During this weekend, let's look for an opportunity to fully focus on someone else, with lovingkindness being the only agenda ~
Linda
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Thank you, Judie,
with our Stephen Ministries
team
